This ones for you.....
You know what.....yesterday, so many questions assailed on me...h'm...really...in the same way as they are hitting you at present, even more than that. Like .....what to gift you?...what will be the best for the best friend?...how to make you feel special?...which thing will be the best representation of my feeling for you?.....and so on. I was really in trauma.
But you don't worry, i applied my usual method for getting out of it. I took a deep breath to calm down myself. In the moments of peace, i realised that an expression of my feelings for you will outdo all other gifts.....that it would be the best. But again, through which way? Whats app status or tweet? Greeting card or any painting? Blog or FB post .....ufff.....what a shilly-shally situation that was. After a lot of consideration, i chose a blog-post. Because i knew that confined status space of whats app n twitter, one or two pages of a greeting, and a portrait wont allow me to come with the whole. And for the FB, i thought, that we are somehow getting bore of it. I didn't want to present our friendship on a boring background, that's why this.
our friendship = 19years of togetherness. Wowww. How good to feel this. Don't you feel the same. But, sometimes our friendship is a kind of surprise for me as we were so different from each other...or we are still, i guess. You and I, like two different poles. your talkativeness and my introversive disposition, your beautiful face packed with sweet smile and mine the ordinary one, your style statements and my simplicity, your life enjoying attitude and my passion for achievements in life....and much more yaar! Had we ever thought of such a friendship out of those differences. No, i never. Still it happened, you know why? 'THE OPPOSITES ATTRACT' ....yes, thats why.
Do you still remember, our the first and last 'jhagda', the cold war, when we were not on speaking terms ...of course without any reason. That one month without each other's company was the empty one . I accept, the 'jhagda' was perplexing us at that time but its outcome was completely marvellous yaar. Don't you think so. It was only after that 'jhagda', we became the best friends in real sense. It tightened our relation. Formerly i used to think that such type of fights are not good but when i see how beneficial our fight was, then i can't help to believe that -- "jhagde acche hai". We should fight,once a year at least. Hai naa ;-)
Our double sweet memories of togetherness always mesmerise me. Sitting side by side, swinging together, lunch sharing, (i must say- aunty ke haathon me jaadu hai....yummmm..... always mouth watering lunch) ....singing, dancing and antakhashari in the last period, playing 'ice-water','chupam-chupai, 'pakadam-padai,'kaath kathuva','Gatte','PekDuk','Poshamba'....everything n anything that we found, now and then long indulgence in silly silly talks (like wo shaadi waali baat, 'ki ek hi city me shaadi karenge'....ha ha ha...how innocent and foolish we were then! ). Without daily hangouts, bday-parties 'Pajama-Parties n night stays, our friendship was the strongest...and so is now.....even more than 'the strongest'.
You know what makes you different from others? Well, the bunch of superb qualities.... polished manners and etiquettes, understanding and caring nature, faithfulness, reliability, ever smiling face, life-living temper.....and much more. I have learnt a lot from you, i admit that. You have made me a altogether different person otherwise i was a Big Book Worm. Through you i felt that there is a beautiful life beyond the books. Now i know how to live life ,though not perfectly, but yes, partly. You are a true critic, always hinting my lacks and wants. Your critic like quality helps me a lot in mending all the wrong in me. Thanks a lot. Thanks a lot for being there. Thanks a lot for the change. Thanks a lot for the metamorphosis.
Tired? should be. I know, it has become too lengthy and boring to read ....especially on bday...a busy day, but i didn't want to take any risk yaar, because .....'kuch kahna ho, kuch karna ho, kuch confess karna ho, toh ussi waqt kar dena chahiye, pta nahi KAL HO NAA HO'.
One Last thing......WISH YOU A VERY HAPPY B'DAY
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